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Post by starlight07 on Dec 15, 2012 5:45:31 GMT -5
Life is the only "test" that I know of. And if you feel the need to "test" the friendship; it's probably not a friendship!
I wouldn't go testing anyone and everyone by making trials of a sort etc but after being hurt by some friends I wouldn't know how to differentiate and to categorise those friends. Some may be fairweather mates from the word go but when you give them your heart then it really hurts when they show you their true colours...so how does one know which friend it is and how they are?
All I know is that a true friend is with you at all times, in good and bad. A friend doesn't leave you if you possess negative emotions or positive ones. A friend doesn't leave you if you have low self esteem. A friend doesn't criticise you yet humours another with the same. That's hypocrisy and that bugs me the most! |
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Post by eos on Dec 15, 2012 10:59:31 GMT -5
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Post by Forever Sunshine on Dec 15, 2012 12:40:11 GMT -5
Star, giving your heart and having it broken is just life. It doesn't kill you and if dealt with in a mature manner, can and will make you stronger and wiser. It's all a learning experience and one continues to learn throughout their entire life. Unfortunately, good souls are taken advantage of all the time.
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Post by starlight07 on Dec 15, 2012 13:44:10 GMT -5
Frosty, it's the fact that good souls are taken an advantage of is upsetting. I just hope fake people meet fake people...like they'll have a taste of their own medicine.
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Post by Forever Sunshine on Dec 15, 2012 14:13:05 GMT -5
I know it's upsetting, Star. I've been there and done that more times than I can count. But everything that happens to us in life happens for a reason. It's what makes us who we are. How we deal with the trials and tribulations life throws at us shapes us each and every day. We are ever changing because of life.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2012 14:37:56 GMT -5
It's like this, don't waste a MINUTE of your time thinking about people can't even give you the time of day. Sometimes we put more importance on our non friends than we do with the REAL people around us. Embrace the people who embrace you. Forget about the naysarers. In life there will simply be people who don't like you. I realized in my marriage that DH and i got busy with other stuff that we spent more time with other people coaching and stuff like and we neglected each other. LOVE the people that love you. Treat them speicial and stop worrying about those who don't even care. Make you real friends and family life more special. Bake them cookies, do things with them. And, move on to just being friendly with new people there a lot people looking for new friends as well.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 16, 2012 12:49:03 GMT -5
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Post by Forever Sunshine on Dec 16, 2012 13:01:49 GMT -5
How ya doin today, Fuzz?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 16, 2012 15:56:07 GMT -5
Awesome! But, i want some SNOW PLEASE!!!  |
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Post by Forever Sunshine on Dec 16, 2012 15:57:29 GMT -5
IIF is getting lots of snow out his way. Maybe he can send you some!
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Post by a on Dec 16, 2012 15:58:14 GMT -5
Been snowing here for the last 3 days, Wolf Creek reported 30" in the 48 hours prior to yesterday.
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Post by Forever Sunshine on Dec 16, 2012 15:59:36 GMT -5
Been snowing here for the last 3 days, Wolf Creek reported 30" in the 48 hours prior to yesterday.
LMAO did a bell on your computer go off that I mentioned you? ;D |
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Post by a on Dec 16, 2012 16:00:12 GMT -5
Sorry, either I've lost my ability to control the weather or never had it!  |
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Post by a on Dec 16, 2012 16:00:54 GMT -5
Been snowing here for the last 3 days, Wolf Creek reported 30" in the 48 hours prior to yesterday.
LMAO did a bell on your computer go off that I mentioned you? ;D That burning ears thing? |
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Post by Forever Sunshine on Dec 16, 2012 16:01:31 GMT -5
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Post by a on Dec 16, 2012 16:05:28 GMT -5
Well I just checked and snow is in the forecast through Wed.  |
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Post by heart2heart on Dec 16, 2012 22:32:28 GMT -5
A Real friend WOULD NOT send me snow. ;D
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Post by sunshine on Dec 17, 2012 1:00:13 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 17, 2012 1:17:31 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 17, 2012 1:18:40 GMT -5
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